Solo Aqui: Missing Corners

The rooms are beginning to look a little sparse as we get closer to our move date. Yesterday, I had a pang of nostalgia for my shadowy and shady 1960's house we've been calling home. I wasn't supposed to get attached, and I didn't think that I had, well, at 4:30 PM yesterday,  as I was placing yet another book into a box (seriously, we still own too many!), it all hit me. Yep. We're leaving this lovely home, this lovely town, these lovely memories we have created on this street for the past 4 years.

In the last 4 years...
 We welcomed a precious little boy into our lives.
We bought a car
We traveled East to see  those we love
We lost a few that we love too
We nearly lost me  (see my story)
We enjoyed 4 family reunions
Celebrated 4 different jobs gained and lost
Made friendships that will last our lifetimes
Cooked delicious meals (and burned a few too)
Danced, cried, worried, laughed and lived these past 4 years fully.

In light of our impending transition, please expect this space to not be frequented as much for the next few weeks. I will do my best to pop in with a post here and there.  Please check back often, especially tomorrow, Thursday, when I will have the amazing Sarah from Desirous of Everything here with a fabulous guest post about one of her (and my) favorite authors.

Thank you for all your wonderful comments and support. It means the world to me. See you all again in this space from my...well, new space in October. Onward!

Take Care,
Julia

Solo Aqui::Around the Corner

 Soon I will walk up and down these front steps with my wee one every day (planning to paint those quaint steps, and of course give that front yard lots of love and care. Any thoughts on colors for those steps?)

Soon I will be able to wash  dishes as I watch my wee one step in and out of those double window doors all by himself (as he has shown me numerous times already).

Soon the small closet will be filled and adjusted to a toddler's height (currently in the process of picking out new door knobs for the closet. Loving these knobs right now).


So many "soons" just around the corner. Looking forward to sharing our adventures in this new space. Is anyone in the process of moving and making a space their own again?

Solo Aqui::10 Things I Learned About House Hunting

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Maybe this post should be titled: 10 things I am LEARNING about house hunting, as I know I continue to learn more with each new step we take on this "hunt" for a new home. I truly thought house hunting would be fun. I did. Really. Maybe it was fun in the beginning what-with the idea of making a space genuinely your own. There were lot's of dreams. Lot's of them. And they still exist, only our perspective has changed immensely.

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The first home we hoped to purchase, which we inspected, made plans for renovation, hired contractors, specialists, roofers, you name it, fell through at the very last minute. Just like that we held no claim over a home we had spent two months prepping, planning, thinking about and  haunting it within our thoughts. We mourned for a few days about our loss. Three days later we cleared the drawing board (ie the kitchen table) and hashed out a new plan. Within the confines of our stale white painted rental walls we made a decision to keep hunting. So, that is what we are doing. Hunting

Just like any good hunt you need to be equipped with gear and knowledge in order to make the best out of your trip. In the process of looking we have become somewhat seasoned house hunters. Here are just a few tips we have picked up along the way.

1. Learn the Lingo. REO Homes are bank-owned and are often associated with foreclosures (being in CA there are a lot of these), the term “short sale” does not necessarily pertain the to length of time it will take to make a sale on a home.
2. Plan to see only 5 homes in one trip. I seemed to have a hard time keeping the homes straight if we looked at more than 5.
3. Bring snacks, water, first aid kit on every home hunt (I can’t tell you how many times I was starving, thirsty  or had cut my hand or got a splinter while viewing some of these homes)
4. Wear comfortable clothing and shoes. You are going to be out and about for a long time. In and out of a car. Wear what you are most comfortable traveling in.
5. Take pictures. I used my cell phone and it was immensely helpful to be able to review what I had seen at the end of the  day.
6. Don’t just check out the house you are interested in. Check out the neighbors, up the street, behind the house, look for dogs, count the number of cars on the street... You are not just buying a house, you are buying a community.
7. Talk to the neighbors. Most of the time neighbors are out (at least in my experience) and they are eager to find out more about you. Chat with them. Get to know them a little bit. They are a wealth of information.
8. Bring your kids to look. I know, this sounds crazy but I found that having my son with me was helpful in that he found all those things that will be problematic (or in some cases great) for him. It’s exhausting and be sure to bring more of what’s listed in number 3.
9. Don’t bring your kids when you are signing paper work. That is time for you pay attention to details not to be worrying about them breaking into other reactors' offices, taking a giant poo right as you are about to sign your name or running off to play a game of hide and seek (yes, all of this happened)
10. Don’t give up. There is a home out there for you. It just hasn’t found YOU yet.

Please add more to this list in the comments section. I’d love to hear what you’ve learned!